Sex Toys Explained To Men: What Girls Like In The Bedroom

One of the biggest mistakes that men do when it comes to sex toys and introducing sex toys in the bedroom is thinking of the sex toys that they would like. That’s the wrong approach, because most of the sextoys you buy are for your lady. And you should think about what your lady needs when it comes to this matter. But men are blindsided by what they see in porn. If you are a man who wants to buy sex toys for your girlfriend or wife, you need to understand that what you see in porn is appealing to your fantasy. The massive dildos that your favorite pornstars use are not for their pleasure. Those toys are for your pleasure as a viewer. So what would your lady like? Well, it’s simple. Follow this guide for the basic toys any lady needs in her pleasure chest and you will have a fun time with this new bedroom activity.

Vibrators Are The Cornerstone Of A Pleasure Kit

The first and only toy that you should get your lady is a vibrator. Women with no sex toy expeirence are reticient when it comes to any toys that involve penetration. But they will easily accept a vibrator that’s only meant for their clitoris. At the same time, it’s an instant pleasure tool that convinces them sex toys are a good idea from the first moment they try it. The best vibrators that women can have are the classic magic wands. That’s because it is the most efficient orgasm inducer and it is also the least sexual looking toy. There are also lots of other clitorial vibrator variations that are more feminine in design. But none of them are as powerful and efficient as a magic wand. 

Next toy that you should try with your lady is a dildo. But be careful. Those dildos that the pornstars use in the movies you watch are too big. Or at least too big for the first time. There are plenty of size queen girlfriends and wives who would love trying a massive dildo one day. But at first, they all want to start small. There’s even a term for this. It is called training and it is the process through which you introduce your ladies to bigger and bigger toys so that she can get used to them both physically and mentally. Start with a realistic dildo that is slightly larger than your penis and then you can choose the next ones together.

Butt Plugs Are In

You might not know it, but most ladies want to try a butt plug. And there are plenty of entry level butt plugs that they would happily wear, both for you and for themselves. What you need to understand is that a butt plug is not just an anal sex device. It is a great toy that can enhance vaginal penetration. It does that by pressing on your shaft when you are in, making it rub harder against her G-spot. So when your lady wears a butt plug, get dready to drill her pussy the best you can. 

Lingerie As Sex Toys

Every sex shop has a section for lingerie. And lingerie can be used as sex toys. After all, it can enhance the pleasure. When your lady feels sexy, she will have better sex. So start buying her lingerie every now and then and make her feel like a pornstar. There are so many options you can choose and what’s fun about it is that you can never go wrong when it comes to lingerie.

Light BDSM Kits

Women want to try BDSM just as much as men do. But to a different intensity. You will find entry level BDSM kits in any sex shop which offers the perfect toys and accessories for your first incursions into dom/sub games. A blindfold, fun looking handcuffs, a small flogger and a leather paddle is what you need. Go soft at first and let your lady get used to the idea of being dominated in that way. There is a lot of time ahead for you to try all those extra wild things. Also, you get bonus points if you dress up when you dominate her.